Hubby and I had a few words last night.....some not so nice mostly coming from my end. It all started that morning when he was asking me what I wanted for Christmas. Firstly you need to understand that at Christmas time, the present buying is usually left to me except for my present, so all Dave has to do is to buy one present, just one! Anuway I gave him a couple of suggestions, one was a sketch pad for pastel drawing as I plan on drawing more over the school holidays. His response to this was how boring! Not boring to me. My whole day (I think) was ruined because Dave didn't have a clue what to get me and disregarded my suggestions, and to me that meant he didn't know me at all. I felt flat and teary most of the day. Later that night we watched a movie and there were some romantic parts in it, as well as some scenes where the guy is so thoughtful and remembers what the girl likes and gives her and did things she liked. It was really sweet and it made me feel worse and then I let Dave know exactly what I thought and that if he can't think of any ideas on his own then I don't want any presents from him. I went to bed very annoyed and sad. Dave went to bed angry at me! Luckily our relationship is strong and all it took was for me to say sorry and a little explanation of why I said what I said and all is good and we are okay again. He may not know what to buy me this time around but I know he loves me and does know me, and I am grateful for that.
Steph
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